send a date invite that’s actually kind of cool
Ask them out without texting “wanna do something?”
dontsay.no lets you create a personal, aesthetic page where your crush can choose what you’ll do on your next date. You send one link — we handle the rest.
See how it works
When you’re done, you just send one link. A short video is coming soon — someone opens it, smiles, and picks a date.
The video is in production — but you can already test the flow by creating your own date page.
choose your own date
Hi Jane ✨
Here’s roughly how the page will look for the person you send the link to.
Wine & conversation
Tap to choose
Fire & stargazing
Tap to choose
Game night
Tap to choose
How does it work?
Create a date page
Type their name, keep our suggestions or add your own options.
Get a personal link
We generate a unique URL you can share on Snap, Insta, Messenger — anywhere.
They choose — you know the answer
They open the page, pick their favorite date — and you’ve got both the answer and the plan.